How absurd that a tail could wag a dog, yet that’s you. Every day. Eating shitty food because you haven’t prepared, guzzling coffee to offset tiredness because you stayed up late, reacting to situations instead of calmly deciding the best course of action. These are all the tail wagging the dog.
It’s important that you harness your opinions. This doesn’t mean that you are “picky” but that you know what you want. If you remain apathetic, life will happen to you not for you. Is it not better to try, fail and try again than never try but spend your existence wondering what if?
Control your tale.